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Comment by Robert P. Meyer Jr. on November 11, 2011 at 5:43pm

I do understand how you feel, Rita.  I do agree that cemeteries only contain mortal remains and that we do go on to elsewhere, wherever that may be.  I think that the draw of cemeteries for me is, just as Toby stated,( Thanks for the kudos, Toby!) the historical value and the connection with those past  that these places give to those folks who don't understand or can't deal with the absence of their loved ones in their lives.  As a former archaeologist and a life-long anthropologist, I find the reserving of huge tracts of quite valuable land for the placement of the dead to be a curious but fortunate social phenomenon in that it preserves a vast amount of history which would otherwise be lost. I have firsthand knowledge of this as I have been involved in many excavations which included the removal of many cemeteries both historic and prehistoric. The handling of the remains and grave goods has a very sobering yet enlightening effect on anybody who has ever been involved in such a project. As for your continuing conversations with your dad, you should consider yourself blessed for having that strong of a tie with his spirit and for being able to keep him so close in your heart and life that you can still communicate with him.  I envy you that. I'm glad that you enjoy the photograph.  I do have many more examples of cemeteries,but I completely understand your not wanting to view them.  Thanks for your interest in my work. 

Comment by Maryrose Orlans on November 11, 2011 at 10:42am

You're welcome, Robert!!  I love to walk through and think of all the people who once walked the earth.  Your photo is a beautiful capture of that feeling!

 

Comment by Toby McConnell on November 11, 2011 at 10:17am

I'm a cemetery goer and never feel that creeped out. Those buried were regular people like you and me, and most -- if not all -- were loved and still are loved by someone holding fond memories in their hearts. I am always saddened by the lack of visitors to cemeteries, though. I suppose it makes many feel too close to death. Feng shui dictates that it is not advantageous to live near one. However, I think I'd rather live near a graveyard than a drugstore. :^) 

In the end, they are holy, solemn places of "peaceful rest." And tons of historical significance. I'll have to look for your other cemetery photos Robert. This one is quite beautiful.

Comment by Robert P. Meyer Jr. on November 11, 2011 at 9:58am

Maryrose, you are so very perceptive!  Thanks for "getting it"! :-)

Rita, cemeteries are one of my favorite places to shoot. They're very peaceful and yet dynamic at he same time. The history that is written on the stones is always fascinating.  I will wander around  a random cemetery with my camera and when it seems that every possible shot has been taken then suddenly, THERE is the shot I've been looking for! I'm glad you like this one.  I've several others posted on Wiffledust that may interest you (or creep you out!) and maybe show you some of the beauty that I've found in these beautiful, restful places.  Thanks!

Comment by Maryrose Orlans on November 10, 2011 at 6:51pm

"The love you take, is equal to the love you make."