What are you grateful for today?

A place to celebrate what we're grateful for. It's fun to think about these things, and apparently it's good for your health too! Embrace your creativity! Go ahead and celebrate your gratitude for anything, no matter how big or small it may be!
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  • Maryrose Orlans

    Today and everyday, I am grateful for my happy, healthy, beautiful 9 year old daughter <3
  • Maryanne Mesple

    I am filled with gratitude for the awareness that I am not alone ... even in times when I feel like an island, my heart always reminds me; I am not alone
  • wiffledust

    maryrose, your 9 year old is a beautiful spirit! maryanne, none of us are eve alone. it's the perception that we are sometimes that gets us into trouble, right? thanks for participating here, you guys. it makes my heart feel good!
  • Maryrose Orlans

    I am grateful for Lisa & Wiffledust!!  Haven't had this much fun with my photography in a long time!  Thank you :-)

  • wiffledust

    aww, maryrose, i'm grateful for you every day! this morning i'm grateful for the wonderful people who make each day interesting. i feel so lucky to be among such creative brains daily!
  • wiffledust

    i'm so grateful  for a likely relief from the heat coming!!!
  • Helen

    I am grateful for disappointments, because they help you realise what it is you really want.
  • wiffledust

    that's interesting, helen. i can understand how not getting what we want all the time helps us to appreciate what we get that's even better. but i'm thinking over the disappointment thing...hmm.....
  • Sherry Somach

    I have not been feeling a lot of gratitude lately...the last episode being that I fainted Friday and injured my chin and lip...and very sore all over.

    I have also not been feeling gratitude for surviving my heart attack last September by helicopter because I have to take so many meds along with their complications.

    It occurs to me that I have a lot to be grateful for, and I am going to try to access it as a project for 10 minutes a day. It is something my soul needs.

    I will be posting a lot here.

    I will start now: I am glad this discussion is here so I can be able to openly express my gratitude

  • Helen

    Sherry - I'm sorry that you have so much to fight through, but I'm glad that you have the insight to know that gratitude can help. I hope you are able to find solace through this practice.

    Lisa - I was a little vague, but in my case I was thinking this: I had a meeting arranged with a person who cancelled, and I found myself far more disappointed than I thought I would be. This showed me how much I wanted the meeting to go ahead. Then, I realised that this could be extrapolated to other circumstances, and hence why I posted here. :)
  • wiffledust

    sherry:  you really have had a hard row to hoe. and it's completely understandable why you wouldn't be feeling particularly grateful. but i know, from personal experience and from that of others, that focusing on what we have helps. it's good to know what we want too, what's missing, so that we can move towards it. for example, you want to be in better health and off those meds. i bet that can happen. and one way it can is by what you're doing. increasing the goodness in the day, reducing stress, enjoying the moment. that HAS to be good for what frustrates you, you know?

     

    which leads me to helen...NOW i see what you mean. just like i was saying to sherry, frustration and disappointment DOES lead us to know  how important something is. it's not bad to feel this stuff, because wanting and yearning pushes us towards what we want. what we have to do though is to always in find the beauty in the moment as we move towards it. thanks, you guys. i think it's cool that we're sharing this journey together!

  • Maryanne Mesple

    Being open to gratitude helps me change my perception of experiences. I choose consciously and that decision impacts everything I "see" and everything I experience. I know for myself personally and only for myself that I deliberately express gratitude to help keep me focused towards enjoying life no matter what and believe me there is a whole lot of "no matter what" in my life :-) Today, I am grateful for being able to share my perspective of life with so many beautiful souls and I am REALLY grateful for FANS!!!!! Gosh darn how lucky I am to have fans in my life!
  • wiffledust

    i'm really grateful for that post, maryanne. i love the way you put it "i deliberately express gratitude to help keep me focused towards enjoying life no matter what...". that is very profound. focused on enjoying life. sounds simple, but it's actually a very complicated line. ....i'm grateful for all sizes and shapes of fans. hassock fans, ceiling fans, window, fans, and the best of all...the ones in the air conditioning units! :-)

     

  • nancy Sanchez

    seems like when I get to feeling a bit sorry for myself if I start on the what I am grateful for I end up with a long long list...today the weather was a nice break and the dogs took me for nice walks...I have ice cream in the freezer for the warm to come and my back is getting better..WOO HOO that is just the tiny tip of the grateful iceberg here...
  • cassandra johnson

    I am grateful that so many of you Wiffledusters brighten my mornings every day with your insight, your humor, and your friendship!  XX
  • wiffledust

    we love you, cass. you got over here!!! yay! nancy, it's so true! just the ABILITY to walk is a big deal, but ice cream in the freezer is ALOT to be thankful for! ;-) i'm so glad your back is getting better!
  • nancy Sanchez

    me too ! it was pretty scary when I couldn't get out of bed without about 10 minutes of working on it and then the stupid pain so I am grateful for my P.T. person !!!! and my pets who have been the greatest nurses ever...see it just grown ..just had one of the caramel ice cream bars by Schwans and my mouth and tummy are ever so happy now...
  • wiffledust

    awesome, nancy! i'm so happy things got so much better for you! ...today i am incredibly grateful for some words. encouraging supportive words from someone whose words mean so much.
  • Maryanne Mesple

    This beautiful morning this is how I am feeling within and I am dancing all over the place!

    http://youtu.be/Ri9PpFVyVhE

  • Sherry Somach

    Very clever video. Fun

    I am grateful for Angela, or as I call he, Angel...ahhhh.

    She is a body worker who gives more than hands on. She is a natural healer!

     

  • wiffledust

    good morning, ladies! i'm so grateful for all the good people. it might sound simple, but there are such good people out there amidst the ick, and they walk around quietly doing good, not judging, helping, spreading kindness,...i'm just grateful for that fact.
  • wiffledust

    i'm grateful for the proposed easing of the heat within this 24 hours. enough already!
  • nancy Sanchez

    and I am grateful that so many people I have as friends on facebook will be getting that easing of the heat...and that it is beautiful this morning..and that I can get out of bed without much pain and that my very good buddy is coming this afternoon for a few days visit..and on and on and on....one of those  great grateful days !!!!!
  • wiffledust

    enjoy your buddy, nancy! and thanks for the weather well wishes. i see some overcast that might indicate some much needed rain to blow some heat out of here. keep your toes crossed! ....i'm grateful for soft cotton tee shirts and wonderful music today.
  • Sherry Somach

    I am grateful for being able to access my gratitude. I am realizing it is a choice, and the only way to stop negative self talk and spiraling downward.

    A friend of mine recently issued a challenge to do one thing every day for 10 minutes for a month and write about it. It could be taking a photograph, writing pages of a novel, etc. I decided to spend mine on actively engaging in getting in touch with gratitude. So, posting here is part of my process.

    In a world filled with doubt, fear and negativity, this is a safe haven and a wonderful place to share with kindred spirits!

  • margaret kraft

    Grateful today for my crazy family.  I went out last night to see/hear my 70 year-old father play trumpet with his rock band.  Yes, I was complaining because my father's music was "too loud."  Then my sister and I got the high score on a trivia game.  She spent the night with my house afterwards.  My father is healthy enough to stay out past MY bedtime, and he is cool enough to play in a rock band with a bunch of guys in their 20's and 30's.  My sister and I are close enough to choose to sleep in the same house even though we live 3 minutes from each other.  I know this is rare, and I don't ever want to take it for granted.
  • wiffledust

    sherry, i think that's a very cool exercise. i'm so honored you want to do some of it here with us! it IS a choice. it seems so complicated, and it FEELS so complicated, but at any moment it can be as simple as reaching toward feeling better vs feeling worse. ......margaret, that is such a blessing...! and funny too! your loud trumpet playing father sounds very fun to me, and so does hanging with your sister! i'm grateful to hear these stories!
  • Maryanne Mesple

    I love all beautiful stories and the sharing of Gratitude :-) Hugs for all!

    Today, my gratitude is for being able to real myself back from the "edge" of just this side of going crazy. (Breathing deeply) I am always so thankful that in a nano second I can go from sane to crazy to sane again... I think getting my daughter ready to move is messing with my equilibrium!

  • Sherry Somach

    Today I practiced an exercise called" the inner smile". You sit , eyes closed, and smile. You think of something that makes you smile. You breathe in, hold  breath, and breathe out....releasing that warm smile energy into your body. Then you smile at every part of you body, in the same manner. The exercise is about sending love to every part of your body.

    I am grateful for my body..and accessing my inner smile.

  • margaret kraft

    Today I am grateful for "getting a move on," as Mother used to say.  I woke up before 8am.  That is an accomplishment for me since being laid off more than a month ago--my body has reverted to teenage sleep patterns.  I have a list of things to do, the physical ability to do them, the financial means to get them done, and a beautiful day on which to do them.
  • wiffledust

    that's beautiful, sherry. i'm going to try it. hugs for you too, maryanne! today i'm grateful  for little fixes. i had my speakers go out on my computer, but a little jiggle brought them back. and i had an air conditioner situation that is going to be fixed with a friend's intelligent suggestion. might sound little, but both make a difference in my day.
  • Sherry Somach

    Today's gratitude exercise came while I was doing my morning stretches.

    I started thinking about people...men in particular...whom I perceived had "done me wrong." I caught myself and sent them off with a smile. My thoughts were/are"why should I fill my mind with hurtful negative thoughts?. I am the one suffering.  Why would I allow someone to have the power to take me away from my joy? Why, indeed?

    My gratitude for today is that I have the power to change my thoughts and create space for joy and good thoughts to fill up that space.

  • wiffledust

    awesome, sherry. it brings us back to the other day. it's a choice. you can let that pain linger and have the rerun of the hurt everday or make space for the love that is coming your way! ....today i'm grateful for whatever force gives me some inner fortitude to deal with some big lions the best i can. ...and determined to get some fun out of the day no matter what!
  • Sherry Somach

    Amen on that, Lisa!
  • wiffledust

    i'm so grateful for more than 5 hours of sleep! woo hoo!!! that fuzz lifted!
  • Matthew Kahler

    shouldn't be, but this topic is a bit tough and dicey for me. my nature, or at least what i have allowed myself to think is my nature, is to be a de facto pessimistico. so, this gratitude/whatcha thankful for bizz is, to me, like the second coming[unlikely to occur]. well, anyway, whatever, i can play along.

    i am thankful for this site. certainly, anyone, anywhere, can write anything they want, at any time. i like this place.

    i'm happy, given all that seems to be wrong and screwed up right now, that i live in a place and time where i can state my case.
  • nancy Sanchez

    today this is a no thinking needed thing...for my great family and friends who do for me the stuff i can't do with left hand...and only one good foot...they even bring me food and chocolate...also very grateful i can eat with my left hand almost as well as my right....

    Matt...i am a cynic but once i get thinking of what i am grateful for it gets easier....

  • wiffledust

    i'm wishing you a speedy healing, nancy! i miss your fb posts already xxxx!  it all boils down to chocolate, doesn't it? ;-)

     

    i think science says that we're all born with a certain degree of optimism or pessimism. but it's also determined by how we were raised and what experiences we've had. and they've also determined that we can teach ourselves to be optimistic...and like nancy, says, our ability to be optimistic can significantly increase. .....i'm not into the happy ho ho of some new age thought, and i am not into waiting around for a second coming either. i tend to think the second coming comes and goes. but i'm certainly no expert. but what i do know is that we are given this day. in this day there will be some gross stuff and some good stuff. what we focus on tends to expand. so i find that as difficult as it may be to focus on what i'm grateful for, it actually does help to give it a moment every day. it just seems to have some power.

     

    matthew, this site is thankful for you! :-)

     

  • nancy Sanchez

    doing better ..even less of the nasty pain pills....am slowly making my way through facebook ...lots of chocolate !!!
  • wiffledust

    i'm sooooo grateful today for  what was wrong with my air conditioning situation to be fixed. or at least as best it can be fixed. soooo grateful, i can't even say! .....and i'm grateful for a stranger who spent time talking to me today about a very complicated issue and trying to help me understand something i needed to understand. he did it ONLY because he is a good person. there are good people scattered around out there!!
  • wiffledust

    sorry to post so much about the weather, you guys, but it seems to make a huge difference in my day! right now there is a steady rain going on outside. it's the most beautiful sound in a dry summer. i can almost hear the grass sighing with relief. and for the first time in what feels like a thousand days on end, no air conditioners are necessary. since i have the window kind, that means quiet. i'm truly grateful for this, because a level of agitation is with me in that extreme heat that is gone tonight. my heart goes out to those of you in the center of the country. you have suffered too much. i can't wait till your heat breaks and you are posting this same post! ...ahhh, thunder! i like it! :-)
  • wiffledust

    today is lucille ball's 100th birthday, and i'm grateful to her for so much. she not only gave us decades ad infinitum of great entertainment, but she forged new territor for we women who are interested in entertainment. she was not only a clown, but a pretty one who loved her audience. she blazed new trails as a business woman when it was almost impossible for women to own any part of their own talent. and she created work and places for art for so many others at desilu. thanks to lucy!!!
  • Matthew Kahler

    well, kinda strange, but I am grateful for the ID channel. stands for investigative discovery. it is a channel that has, almost exclusively, murder stories. you know, 48 hours mystery, dateline, forensic stuff, etc. I have it going in the background as I do other things.
  • wiffledust

    oh that's wild! we don't have the ID channel. or maybe we do and i don't get it. but i think i'd have nightmares. however the forensic part of solving stuff is pretty fun. ...but i, too, am grateful for certain default channels. i don't always care to admit what they are though. but when i want to relax, i'm awfully grateful for old reruns. and i'm sooo grateful for amc and the turner old classics...not to mention PBS. but i have to be engaged to do PBS. it's not my "while i'm doing other things" channel.
  • Helen

    I love those shows too, Matthew. I find them endlessly fascinating

    Today, I am grateful that the sun rose again.
  • wiffledust

    helen, i knew it! i knew you would be into that too! :-) rita, if i had kids that suddenly got to redecorating everything, i think i'd want them to get to school too! :-) but i'm glad you're grateful for them, because what a blessing to have such creative children! i got to spend a little time with my teenage buddy today, and i'm grateful for that. she likes to tune me in to hip stuff!
  • wiffledust

    today i'm grateful for some basic knowledge of practical things. it may sound like a strange thing to be grateful for. but i see so many kids and wealthy people who don't know HOW to do anything anymore. they are so used to paying for help for every little thing that they don't know how to make a bed. i don't have the physical strength to do all that i want to do, and i don't like doing all those things, but i'm grateful that i at least know the how's of many things. and i wish that parents would teach their kids some basic life skills again. it's good that some are cooking, but i can't tell you how many kids i've met in the last few years who barely know how to flatten a box much less make a hospital corner.
  • Maryanne Mesple

    Today I am grateful to be sitting at my mom's bedside in the hospital and watching her sleep peacefully. Priceless :-)
  • wiffledust

    that really IS priceless, maryanne. how is she?
  • wiffledust

    that's really alot of family if you think about it, mariah. there are so many who don't have that! i'm so glad you have them. thanks for sharing!